Monday, March 11, 2019

My speech on International Women's Day, 8 March 2019


Hi friends, Not everyone of you (especially my male colleagues) is as lucky and privileged as I am today, for getting an opportunity to stand before you all lovely ladies and gentlemen and deliver a speech on the occasion of International Women’s Day. Today is a special day, not simply because we are celebrating womanhood and giving the species called “woman” their due recognition, but also specifically because it’s an important step towards achieving equality in society, equality to a species which constitutes half of the world’s population of 14 billion. So…the 7 billion is not a small lot, it’s the equal half of the other half called “Men”.

I am emphasizing on the word “species” because I truly believe, if there has to be a species differentiation, or any differentiation among human beings, then it has to be two: “men” and “women”, not anything else…not religion, language, society & culture, and not race. So…I truly believe there is nothing wrong in discussing the differences and similarities between men and women. Only then can both species understand each other better and liberate each other in the company of each other. It’s a biological truth: We have to cohabit, only then we can survive!

Why do we celebrate Women’s Day, then? To me, there are various reasons for this:

1.        To feel proud about the fact that women form half the population of the world and celebrate to establish the fact that they are a force to reckon with. The need to do this is because of thousands of years of oppression that women around the world have suffered.

2.       To reflect on equality of rights between both men and women in all spheres and to understand what has been achieved and what are yet to be done.

3.       To iterate and reiterate the significance of womanhood in the survival of humanity

And many more…

As you all know, the movement that led to the recognition of International Women’s Day by the UN started in the late 19th-early 20th century in Germany and Russia, and then spread in many parts of the world. It began among the womenfolk of industrial workers with a demand for equal rights. 

Unfortunately the struggle still continues, despite we being in the 21st century and the world changing drastically in the past one century. In many areas, equality has been achieved and the one-upmanship of men has been overthrown; but sadly there are many areas where the position of women is still lackluster. We do not realize these in our day-to-day life, but at least in today’s occasion, we can try to reflect on these and come to some resolution.

To find an example, we should not go beyond. If we look around our neighbours, our society, our communities, our offices, even our household, we will come across many such incidences, and many such situations where women have been oppressed—sometimes in the garb of social ethics, sometimes in the garb of religious beliefs and customs, and sometimes in the garb of general rules. This has to change, only then we both—men and women—will be able to celebrate together the real cause of Women’s Day! I sincerely believe we will see that day in our lifetime!

That brings me to the question of women’s liberation! I was browsing through some videos on women’s day and came across a speech in UN delivered by Anne Hathaway. You can yourself hear her speak on women’s liberation, and I recommend you listen to that speech, she has brought in an entirely new perspective to women’s liberation. The crux of the matter is that there can be no liberation of women till men continues to feel protective about women. That’s the real reason behind all the suppression and oppression to women, all social rules that led to women’s suppression. That’s the main reason behind unequal rights between men and women. She reiterates that it is “men” who needs liberation—liberation from their chauvinism, liberation from their feeling of protection—and it is women who can help liberate men.

So, again, it is all about men and women, nothing else! That’s a biological truth!

It is such a lovely atmosphere here where we are together celebrating International Women’s Day. If we look around, we do not see any discrimination to woman here in our organization. In fact, our workforce is so woman-heavy and there are many woman heavyweights as well. I salute all of them! But let me tell you, Publishing is a sector where you will find the majority being woman players! But the picture is not so rosy when we see other sectors of work. It is disgusting in some sectors! It is time we break this one-upmanship of men.

I am also supposed to talk a little bit about a few inspiring women. But I am grossly underprepared for that, and my memory also fails me. I can recollect a few though: Bachendri Pal, who climbed Everest, Kalpana Chawla, India’s first woman to go to space, Kiran Bedi, first woman IPS officer, Vijaylaxmi Pandit, first IAS officer, Mother Teresa, Anne Besant. From around the world, I am fascinated to know about Gertrude Bell, only the second woman to have travelled the Arabian and Sahara deserts and befriend the Bedouins in their hostile territories! Such an inspiring story, indeed! But there are many more unknown but significant women who have contributed to the spirit of womanhood. I am sure we will hear about them from the rest of the speakers.

I wish all a very happy International Women’s Day once again! Thank you!